The Tooth Fairy and Losing a First Baby Tooth

Q. My son is six years old and hasn't lost his first tooth yet. He is anxious for the tooth fairy to come and we are both wondering what the going rate now is for a first baby tooth. Will he lose a tooth soon?

A. He should. Children usually lose their first tooth sometime between age six and seven years old. Some kids are a little earlier and others a little later though. One big influence seems to be the timing of when he started getting teeth and when he got his last baby tooth.

The average child gets his first baby tooth at age six months and then gets three to four new teeth every three to four months. This continues until the second molars erupt at about age two to two and a half years, at which time your child should have all twenty baby teeth.

If your child got his first tooth early or finished getting all of his baby teeth early, then he might start losing his baby teeth early too. On the other hand, if he didn't get his first tooth until age twelve or fifteen months, then he might be a little later than average in shedding or losing his first tooth.

Once he does start losing his teeth, the pattern will seem like a reverse of how these baby teeth came in. He should first lose the bottom two middle teeth, which are called the mandibular central incisors. Next, the top two middle teeth will fall out, followed by his canines, first molars, and then second molars. By age eleven to thirteen, the process should be complete and all of his baby teeth will be gone.

The secondary or permanent teeth soon begin erupting as your child loses baby teeth. This process isn't complete until your child gets his third molars or wisdom teeth at age seventeen to twenty two years of age.

So how much money should your child expect the tooth fairy to bring? It varies, from a few quarters to a few dollars, although the tooth fairy often brings more for the first baby tooth that is lost.

Feeding Your Baby

Feeding Your Baby There seems to always be controversy or discussion about whether breastfeeding is best for your baby and for what length of time. One thing I know for sure is that popular opinion sways and changes from decade to decade. I think that at some point, we all need to relax and do what is best for everyone involved, including baby and baby's mom.

Personally, I believe breastfeeding is best whenever possible, however, I found out very quickly with my first daughter that trying to keep her hunger at bay with only breast milk was impossible. I thought I had enough milk ... it was just so hard trying to feed her every hour (or so it seemed) only to have her cry for more when I was sure she'd had plenty. As soon as I gave her a bottle to supplement nursing, she was quite content, thank you. So was I. ;-)

If you're a mom who is firm about breastfeeding and you'll go to every extreme to insure your baby is nursed for as long as possible, by all means go for it. Your baby will inherit your immunities (to a point) and be receiving nature's very best food source. You'll find plenty of nursing outfits and cover-ups available today to support you in your decision and life style. And you'll save so much money that would have been spent on bottles and formula, you can start baby's college fund earlier. :-)

If you're a mom who just can't bear the thought of breastfeeding, whether it's because your breasts are too tender to start or continue nursing or the thought of having baby attached to you at inopportune times and 24/7 is something that makes you squeamish, then speak with your doctor before baby arrives (or shortly thereafter if it's a decision you've come to after the fact) and find the best infant formula for your particular baby. You might also have a physical condition that prevents you from nursing or a baby who can't/won't nurse. Whatever you do, don't let anyone (Baby's father, your mother, father, mother-in-law, grandmother, doctor, etc.) make you feel guilty.

If your baby's father is stressed because you won't or can't breastfeed, talk with him openly about it. As this could become a touchy subject which neither of you need right about now, try to have this conversation before it becomes an issue. If it's too late for pre-baby negotiations, try to understand his point of view and explain yours as clearly and unemotionally as possible. This is not a good time to have marital discord. For everyone's sake, if you're a dad who feels your baby's mother should be breastfeeding your child and she isn't or doesn't want to, please try to let it go. Mom needs as much understanding and support right now as is humanly possible. Baby will be just fine either way.

At about four months of age, baby will be ready for a little cereal and a touch of smashed up solid foods. This is the fun part! There are countless processed baby foods on the market. I made my own, with the exception of a few jars of pre-prepared mushy organic fruit varieties to make my life a little easier. Besides, I needed those little jars to fill with my own baby food creations. And yes, I will share my recipes with you on the solid foods page. :-)

Go forth into the world of feeding your baby ...

* Breast Feeding
Yes, it's a good thing. :-)

* Bottle Feeding
Sometimes, it's the only way or a necessary supplement.

* Solid Foods
Oh yum ... this is when feeding becomes fun!

Your Baby's Eyes

Vision contributes a great deal to an infant’s perception of the world. Many parents naturally are concerned about their child’s vision. Fortunately, serious eye conditions and blindness are rare in infants. Babies can, however have eye problems, so an eye checkup is still an important part of well-baby care. This issue of “Eye Facts” describes some eye problems that occur.

How and When Do a Baby’s Eyes Develop?
The eyes begin developing two weeks after conception. Over the next four weeks all of the major eye structures form. During this time the eye is particularly vulnerable to injury. For example, if the mother takes drugs or becomes infected with German measles, the eye can be malformed or damaged. During the last seven months of pregnancy the eye continues to grow and mature, and the nerve that connects the eye to the brain (optic nerve) is formed.

At birth a baby’s eye is about 75 percent of the size of an adult eye. During the first two years of life, the optic nerve, visual function and internal eye structures continue to develop.

What Can a Baby See?
The newborn’s visual acuity (sharpness of vision) is approximately 20/400. This is equivalent to seeing only the big letter “E” on an eye chart. Vision slowly improves to 20/20 by age 2 years. Color vision is present at birth.

Newborns at first don’t pay much attention to the visual world but normally will blink when light shines in their eye. By 6 to 8 weeks of age, infants will fix their gaze on an object and follow its movement.

A baby’s eyes should be well aligned (working as a team) by 4 months of age (see “strabismus” below). As the eyes become aligned, three-dimensional vision develops.


How Are a Baby’s Eyes Examined?
The first eye exam takes place in the newborn nursery. The pediatrician performs a screening eye exam to check for infections or structural problems with the eyes: malformed eyelids, cataracts, glaucoma or other abnormalities. When the baby is 6 months old, the pediatrician should check the baby’s eye alignment and visual fixation (how it focuses its gaze).

Pediatricians can treat simple eye problems such as pinkeye (conjunctivitis). If you or your pediatrician believes your baby has a more serious eye problem, which may require medical or surgical treatment, the infant should be referred to an ophthalmologist. No child is too young for a complete eye exam.

An eye doctor’s examination of a baby is similar to that performed on adults. The doctor evaluates the baby’s medical history, vision, eye muscles and eye structures.

The doctor assesses the baby’s vision by observing the following. Does the infant react to light shone in the eyes? Will the baby look at a face or follow a moving toy? Other, more sophisticated vision tests may be used if needed.

Eye drops are used to temporarily enlarge (dilate) the pupils for closer examination of the eyes. The drops may take 30 to 90 minutes to work. The eye doctor then uses an instrument to test the baby’s eye for a refractive error, such as nearsightedness, farsightedness or astigmatism. Most children are farsighted at birth but usually not to a degree requiring glasses. However, a baby –even a newborn- can wear glasses if needed.

Finally, the eye doctor uses a lighted instrument with a magnifying glass (ophthalmoscope) to look inside the eye.

Which Eye Problems Occur in Infants?
Infections - Some newborns may catch conjunctivitis as they pass through the birth canal. Older babies can get this eye infection through exposure to persons infected with it. Infected eyes appear red and puffy and have a sticky discharge. Antibiotic eye drops may be given as treatment.

Blocked tear ducts - Tears drain from the eye through a duct, leading from the inside corner of the eyelid, and into the nose. Some babies are born with a blocked tear duct, which causes tears to back up and overflow. As these infants are prone to eye infections, antibiotics may need to be prescribed. In most cases, the tear ducts open on their own by 1 year of age. Sometimes massage therapy of the duct may be needed. Occasionally the ophthalmologist must perform a surgical procedure to unblock the tear duct.

Cataracts - Inside the eye is a lens that helps it focus, similar to the lens on a camera. The eye’s lens normally is crystal clear. Rarely, babies are born with a cataract- cloudiness of the lens that keeps light from passing through. Cataracts in infants usually are found by the pediatrician during newborn or well-baby exams. If the cataract is severe, the pupil appears white; surgery may be required to remove the cataract.

Strabismus - Strabismus means that the eyes are misaligned. For instance, one eye may be turned in- esotropia (crossed eye)- or turned out- exotropia (walleye). There are actually many forms of strabismus. Eye alignment is normally unsteady at birth but by 4 months of age the eyes should be straight. Any infant who continues to show an eye misalignment after 4 months of age or a child who later acquires strabismus should have a complete eye exam. Untreated strabismus may lead to amblyopia (see below). It is a myth that kids outgrow strabismus.

Amblyopia - Amblyopia (commonly called lazy eye) is the medical term for a loss of vision in an apparently healthy eye. This occurs in babies and young children if there is an imbalance between the eyes. In these cases, the child may subconsciously use one eye more often. The other eye will then lose vision due to disuse. An eye imbalance can occur when there is cataract, strabismus, ptosis (droopy eyelid), eye injury or a refractive error that is worse in one eye. Amblyopia usually does not have symptoms and often is discovered at a school vision screening. It is ideally treated by an eye doctor before the child is 6 to 10 years old, or the vision loss will be permanent. Treatment encourages the child to use the lazy eye by wearing glasses, and/or wearing a patch over the “good” eye or instilling an eye drop to the good eye.

Ptosis - In a few children, the muscle that raises the upper eyelid fails to develop properly in one or both eyes. This muscle weakness, which causes the upper eyelid to droop, is called ptosis. When an eyelid droops and covers half the eye, that eye may mistakenly appear smaller than the other. Ptosis sometimes may result in amblyopia. If the ptosis is severe, surgery is required to lift the eyelid.

Retinopathy of Prematurity - If a baby is born prematurely, the blood vessels in the eye that supply the retina are not fully developed. Sometimes these blood vessels develop abnormally and may damage the inside of the eye. Retinopathy of prematurity can be detected only during an ophthalmic exam, which should be performed in premature babies during the first few weeks of life. If the disease is advanced, the eye can be treated to prevent blindness.

Visual inattention - Sometimes an infant does not begin to pay attention to visual stimuli by 6 to 8 weeks of age, as is normal. This may be due to delayed development of the visual system, common in premature infants and also occurring in some full-term babies. Often the visual system will mature normally with time. However, visual inattention can also be a sign of eye disease and may result in permanent and/or progressive vision loss. A complete eye exam is in order if a full-term, healthy baby appears visually inattentive after 3 months of age.

Lawrence M. Kaufman, MD, PhD
Assistant Professor

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Caring for your baby's skin

Your baby's skin is thinner, more fragile and less oily than an adult's. It also produces less melanin, the substance that helps ward off sunburn. It is less resistant to bacteria and harmful substances in the environment, especially if it is irritated. Babies also sweat less efficiently than the rest of us, so it is harder for them to maintain their inner body temperature. On the other hand, most babies are less likely to react to allergens. In the first few weeks after birth, your baby will retain some of your hormones. As a result, several minor skin conditions can result which will usually disappear fairly quickly. In addition, there are a few other skin conditions that are common during childhood which are normal and, most often, easily managed:

1. Heat rash: Small pink pimples, often across the body. This condition results from high heat and humidity and undeveloped sweat glands. Do not overdress baby or overheat room, keep clothing loose and cleanse and dry skin thoroughly.
2. Infant acne: Pink spots on the face. When infants are born, they still retain their mother's hormones for a short time and, as a result, infant acne can occur. This usually goes away on its own in the first few weeks. If not, talk to your health care professional.
3. Cradle cap: Crusty patches on scalp. Overactive glands in your baby's scalp can cause cradle cap. Wipe gently with baby oil, leave on a few minutes, shampoo with baby shampoo, then use baby brush or comb
4. Chafing: When there is friction between baby's clothing and skin, or where areas of skin rub together, chafing can result. Remove or minimize anything that is tight or rubs against the skin, like rubber pants or straps. Cleanse, rinse and dry skin thoroughly, then apply cornstarch baby powder, lotion or cream
5. Eczema: Red, irritating, scaly skin. Atopic dermatitis or eczema is a genetically determined common skin condition. Clean and dry skin thoroughly. Talk to your pediatrician or health care professional; you may want to try sensitive-skin products especially designed for babies.

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Choosing a Pediatrician for Your Baby

Choosing a Pediatrician for Your Baby :Choosing a doctor for your baby may not be something you've given a lot of thought to during pregnancy. Many women don't realize that this is something that should be done well before baby is born to prevent any hiccups in baby's care after the birth. In many areas, unless you're using a family practitioner and sometimes a nurse midwife, the moment the cord is cut the obstetrician or other doctor is technically no longer responsible for your child. By allowing yourself time to interview and select a pediatrician or family practitioner for your baby you will be able to research your feelings of parenting and your partner's feeling as well as how likely of a match you are with your particular candidate. This person is going to be someone that you will be seeing quite frequently for well baby care and in cases of illness and emergency.

It's very important that you find someone who has a style, personality and skills to match your needs.

In determining whether your philosophies are similar, ask yourself how you and your partner feel about the following issues, and then ask your potential pediatricians:

* Antibiotics: In the past many pediatricians have over prescribed antibiotics. Due to the potential ramifications of over use and the questionable benefits in some cases, many pediatricians are using them less frequently. When do you feel that they should be used? What about your potential doctor?

* Breastfeeding: Is this person knowledgeable in the subject? Do they have a myriad of resources available or will they suggest weaning at the first sign of trouble?

* Parenting Style: While it's really hard to determine how you will parent before having the baby and adapting your lives accordingly, is this person someone that you would agree with on parenting issues like discipline, the family bed, feeding issues, etc.? If not you may be setting yourself up for a lot of strife.

There are many other issues which may be important to you, like office hours, on call schedules, vaccination issues, waiting rooms situations, etc. Anything that you think is important should be addressed in an interview prenatally. This interview is usually best done in person. It allows you to get a feel for how the office is run and what the staff and nurses are like. It will give you a chance to check out the location for convenience, cleanliness, and atmosphere. It's also much easier to get a feel for the practice in this hands on manner.

When you have your appointment, bring your birth plan with you. Show it to the potential doctor(s). Since they will be the ones in charge of your baby's care in the hospital or birth center you will need to know if they will support your ideas at the birth. Things you might address are rooming in, breastfeeding, doing newborn exams in the room instead of the nursery, what will happen if baby needs to transfer to the intensive care nursery, when will you see the doctor at the hospital, etc. If you're planning a homebirth, ask when they would like to see the baby. Will they do a home visit or are you required to come in with the baby within a certain amount of time? Most pediatricians are very used to dealing with these types of questions.

While there are certainly a lot of factors that will go into your final decision (insurance, hospital affiliation, gender preference, etc.), your gut feeling about the partnership you will have with this person is often a very good indicator. Don't hesitate to check with your local medical association to see if complaints have been lodged or with local moms and dads to see how their experience have been.